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3 Hard Truths That Are Helpful Yet Tough to Hear…

Hard Truth #1: Your out of control behavior is in your control

One common theme I’ve noticed over the years from working with thousands of people with their money development is this: Everyone has something they do that depletes their energy and keeps them from being successful.

This “something” is self-induced and has nothing to do with others, the economy, and even their environment. 

It’s behaviour that is completely in the person’s control yet they still desire to keep that aspect out of control.  

In other words, their out of control behavior is oddly enough…in their control.

Personally, my out of control behavior is evidenced by the crazy amount of paperwork located in my office and just outside my office. I have binders, notebooks, and stacks of paper that I will get to, “someday.” 

These stacks take my energy every time I look at them. With every glance I send their way, utters a silent yet deafening response from them, “Hey what about us? We thought you were going to get to us, we are sitting here waiting on you.” I reply sharply, “I know you’re waiting on me, I’m waiting on the extra time in the day to deal with  you.”

Thus, more lies uttered. 

As my head hits the pillow each night, I secretly wonder, when will that “extra time” come to deal with my papers?

What is in your control that is currently out of control? Meaning, what is one thing that if you changed your behavior could lead you to becoming more successful, productive or creative?

Hard Truth #2: Your Excuses need to go!

Ever notice it’s easier to make up a reason something hasn’t happened for you instead of finding a solution to making something happen? What I mean is, too often we seek the easier path, call it avoidance, call it procrastination, call it overwhelm, frankly it doesn’t matter what you call it, what matters is you dig a little deeper into why you hold yourself back. 

Perhaps holding back from your dreams and goals serves you. By serving you, I mean you receive a payoff for not stretching and achieving your goals. 

Payoff’s come in many forms: staying comfortably in your comfort zone. Complaining to others, ie having a victim mentality. Having to rely on others for support.

These payoffs, at the surface may not sound like benefits, yet when you dig deeper it’s easy to see how they benefit people. Victims get a lot of attention and focus. Victims get rescued. Victims get saved. You have probably heard the saying, “The squeaky wheel gets the grease.”

Let me be clear, I am not referring to people who have had catastrophic events happen to them. 

I am referring to people who have an able mind and yet, continue to make excuses as to why they aren’t where they want to be in life and continue to blame their circumstances on others. 

I encourage you to drop your excuses and start living! Try a different approach to life and see how it goes. 

Start with small steps and take it one day at a time. 

Hard Truth #3: People are self-focused not you focused. 

Sad but true…Most people are super worried about what others think of them. How many times have you done or not done something solely because you were worried what other people would say or think about you? 

Seriously, think back to a time in your life when you did something (or didn’t) because of what someone else might think. 

I can think of  many examples, like all the times I’ve picked up the dinner tab with friends because I thought people would think I was cheap if I didn’t. 

Today, I realize how much I’ve grown as a person. I think more of myself  and I no longer think I have to always pick up the tab. 

Changing old behavior took work, deep inner work and also it took confronting myself by asking, “why do I always pick up the tab when I’m out with friends.” This first step led me to having an honest conversation with myself and then I got to explore ways to raise my self- esteem. 

Exercise: discover the areas of your life that you behave in ways that don’t serve you and stop worrying what others think. 

These areas are: ______________________________________________________________

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What can you do differently now that you realize people are more concerned about themselves than you? : ______________________________________________________________

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Hopefully you allocated some thinking time to these questions. Thinking time, is time well spent. Thinking time can help you find solutions to long term challenges. Consider these 3 hard truths and how your life will change once you come to grips with them. 

Hopefully these truths will be a relief to you and give you permission to be YOU. 

If it’s permission you are waiting for then great…permission granted! NOW…Go ahead and be the best version of you possible. 

Your Partner for Success,

Jaden Sterling

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Helpful Reminders to Thrive in Tough Times

 

The following is a transcript from a live event I spoke at hosted by Self Connection Books in Calgary, AB. The event was an evening of channeling with my spiritual team, called,

The One Voice.

The One Voice is a collaborative voice of high vibration, white light beings including: ascended masters, angelic presences and even Source. They share messages that empower and enlighten people to live more productively with ease and grace.

 

During this turbulent time, we hope you find comfort and clarity in their words… Enjoy!

 

                                                         Opening the Channeling Process

Jaden: I want to thank the universe for bringing us together tonight and for setting a space and the clarity in this room for crystal clear channeling, for my guides to opening me to my seeing, hearing, feeling and knowing. So that every message that is coming through to me is crystal clear that there is no miss interpretation of anything and everything is for each person’s highest and best. I ask that each of you open up your channels as well so that the information that comes to you is what you need for your highest and best. Perhaps there is a question on your heart about your, life, your business, your health, your relationship.

 

In order to connect with  higher realms, you have to meet them halfway, so I raise my vibration as they lower theirs.

 

(Breathe)

                                                        Raise Your Vibration

You could simply raise your vibration by thinking happy thoughts, by smiling from the inside out. Take in a deep breath and then I visualize a channel that’s open in the top of my head. Open wide, open to the universe, to my guides and my team that are coming through this beautiful information to share.

 

(Breathe)

                                                   You Are Loved & Blessed

THE ONE VOICE: We are ready to begin. Welcome each and every one of you, thank you for being here. We’re looking forward to connecting with each of you, your higher selves. And we see that you have questions, many of you have many questions. First step we want you to know is to relax in this process, to know that you are deeply loved, you are highly blessed. You’re here for a reason, you’re here tonight for a reason but you’re also here on this earth for a very specific reason at this time. It’s deeper than what you’re telling yourself, it’s deeper than the knowing that you have. And tonight we’ll discuss that, we’ll discuss the depth as to why you’re here and what you’re here to do. So we’ll call forth one of you who has a question. Neil

 

Question: Neil: What more of me needs to come out to bring more love into the world?

 

                                                         You Are Love

The One Voice: Beautiful question. You are plenty to bring more love into the world. It’s the process of which you go about it that can be improved. The process is to first feel that love in your heart, to focus and radiate the energy from your crown chakra and throughout your body, in your auric-space and ask that the energy and space around you be magnified into such a way that is touching more and more people. Your working too hard at that process, it is not work, it just a matter of allowing that feeling of love to flow through you. And ask for it to be magnified. Your team is wanting to work more with you, ask for their help more, ask them to do things. Open doors for you touch lives; expand your love into areas that are in the far recesses of the earth to touch every human. And as you touch each human have that human touch another human. And it creates an effect that at the end of the day, you say wow, there is love on this planet. There is love in people’s heart and there is a high vibration that people can connect in with. And as you walk through a room, be mindful of that because you already exude that focus and that energy and that love. You are love.

 

                                           How to Release and Manifest

If there is concern or too much focus is given in an area, that diminishes your strength. So what you’re bringing to this situation whether it’s business, relationship, career, transitioning from one business or out of corporate to your own thing. So it’s a matter of releasing any kind of expectation that you have around your life situation, release that. Jaden learned this just yesterday walking on the beach in Florida. He had said all week long, I want a sharks tooth, I want to find a sharks tooth and he was obsessed over it.

He asked for guidance and we came in, and said, remember the way you manifest, you manifest from your knowing. Jaden said “right I need to know ok, right now I know I’m going to find a sharks tooth. My belief is very strong” and they said, then you let go of expectation and I let go of expectation. Then the next part was to believe, to absolutely believe.

 

As they continued our walk on the beach Jaden’s wife wife said, “Oh I want to take a picture” and they stopped and took a picture and Jaden looked down and there was a shark’s tooth.

                                The Journey is All About Relationships

So the universe is always bringing us what we need and what we desire. And people in our lives are showing us what to do as well. They are showing us the steps to take and we need to honor that. Not enough of us are honoring those steps that we need to take. The people that are in your life are there for a reason.

You may say how do you know that? How can that be true? It is true, they are there to show you something within you that needs to be healed, that needs to be elevated. And if there’s something that you do not like in your loved one it’s because it exists within you. It’s a very simple formula here on earth. We are in a situation here that is all about energy and vibration, relationships, love. So it’s allowing you to step into that vibration and loving yourself. Each of you can have a very deep connection with your spiritual team.

 

                                                  Clear Clutter

It’s a matter of clearing the clutter as they like to say, clearing the mental clutter, the physical clutter in your space. The things that you tell yourself that aren’t loving. That needs to be removed, stop that. When you stop that then you can choose another thought, another feeling. Allow for more to come to you and when you allow for more, you just need a slight opening a very tiny space they show me, a slight opening, for them to slide in the energy of what you truly desire.

                                      How to Stop Resisting…

The next thing is to remove the resistance around what you desire. Everyone is resisting, stop resisting. How do you stop resisting? Well you trust, you show up, you believe, you have faith, you honor who you are in this incredible adventure that’s called life. Honor yourself, honor your gifts and then you make a new decision. And the new decision must do with whatever it is that you want it to have to do with; work, relationship, love, family, children, pick a topic it’s all the same because it’s all energy and vibration.

And as you elevate your consciousness and energy and vibration, you bring to you instantaneously that which you desire. Automatically there is no resistance, there’s going with the flow, no longer fighting the flow.

How often do you need to fight the flow?

Many of you choose all the time. (Laughing) You fight the flow.

 

So allow for that fight to end, wave the white surrender flag and say I’m finished fighting the flow. And then your team can step in and work with you so that you’re now part of the flow, you’re no longer fighting against it, you’re no longer resisting the flow.

 

The flow is natural, resistance in unnatural and you know when you feel this, don’t you? You know when you feel it in your gut, heart, throat or mind, throughout the body. Your body is sensing and telling you what it is that you need to know. The direction that you need to go in, trust that, trust that direction, trust that information because it is already yours. It is already flowing to you, why not become part of it and when you do that life becomes easy.

 

                                           Life Can Be Easy

And how do you make life easy? Some say, “It’s so difficult.” There is nothing difficult about it, once you understand these very simple rules and laws. And there are laws just as simple as stop at a stop sign. That’s a law but many of you choose to continue to break the laws. Start honoring yourself and the laws and when you do that, you’ll see, your entire life will shift and you’ll say to yourself “wow I had no idea it could be so good. I had no idea it would be this easy. I had no idea it would be this fun”.

 

And when you allow for that, that is when you’re tuned in to the source that is in you, Sources in each of you, call it source creator, call it whatever you like, All That Is, is a part of you, you are a part of source. It’s not outside of you, it exists inside you and when you’re connected with that part of you there isn’t anything that you can’t, be, do or have. Life can be silly fun if you allow it.

Jaden keeps saying, “my life is so good and then it gets better”. We’ve been working with him for a long time though; he’s had to overcome a lot as well.

 

                                     Choose a New Path

We all have experiences in parts of us that we need to overcome. What is easiest is to embrace that part. Embrace that aspect of you that is fighting against you. When you embrace that, you then tend to look into it to see the message it has for you. And that message could be as simple as, why don’t you consider a new decision this time? Instead of going left like you always do. Why don’t you try going right and see what happens Instead of fighting in business and working and struggling?

 

Why not consider walking through the open door, that’s already there for you, rather than bashing down walls? Consider the easy path, we always encourage that. It is not the lazy path. The divine easy part that flows is one of simplicity and grace in this the path that is already laid before you, before you incarnated into this earth plane. It is a path that is abundantly joyful and abundant in all ways and it’s also the path that you chose to be a part of before you incarnated. And then you lost your directions.

 

                           When You Lose Your Way…

So its getting you back on that path and we say to you it’s so simple to get back on the path. It’s making a new decision; it’s trusting within you and having the belief in you. That’s the number one way to get back on the path, is to have belief in self, yourself and what you desire and if your belief in self isn’t large enough. Then believe in something greater than you, like the universe or source or lady bug or plants or tree, it doesn’t matter. But believe in something greater than you, something that you can truly connect in with and then watch for the guidance that it has for you. It’s there to guide you. No need to walk through life as if you’re walking into a dark room blindfolded all the time. There’s no need for that. The lights are on, your eyes are open and when your eyes are open to this truth that’s deep inside of you, you can never go back and live the other way because it won’t feel natural. It will fell unnatural and in the unnatural is where struggle exist, where pain exist. The natural state of beingness is in perfect health, harmony, joy love, abundance all of that is for you at all times.

 

 

                                    You ARE Blessed

The universe does not discriminate and say Joe needs to have more money than Jim or Jane, no each of you are blessed. But you’re forgetting to tell yourself on a daily basis how blessed you are and we give a simple easy mantra. And that is: I am highly blessed, I am deeply loved and I am highly favored, if you say that every day. I am highly blessed and deeply loved and highly favored, then the things that show up in your realm and in your space will exhibit those exact qualities of blessing you and loving you.

 

It’s a very simple, easy formula if you allow.

 

                                                  Let Go

So discover within yourself what holds you back form asking those questions within you. Discover what stopped you from repeating those simple words to yourself each day and trusting in you. That is the most important thing, is to trust in you and in your abilities and then let it go, let it go, let it go, LET IT GO and when you do that the pressure comes off.

 

                                    Universe is Waiting on YOU

Stress falls away and you say to universe” show me the best that I can stand” and then take it up another notch. And that is what you will experience because you’ve said that’s what’s in your heart. You’ve been clear with the universe and speak directly to your inner self, directly to your inner self. Your body responds to your words, your body will do what you want it to do. Tell it what you want it do.

Your cells are listening and waiting for your direction. They are waiting to hear from you what you want of them, just as the universe is too. It is waiting for you to tell it what you truly desire.

Most of you are holding back your desires, most of you limit your desires and you say to the creator of the universe “oh I just have a parking ticket, you know, could you take care of this for me”. The universe says, what are you saying I can move mountains for you. You’re saying “no I just have this little parking ticket please take it away”.

                                                                 Ask for More

So raise up your standard and your asking of the universe and of yourself, lift those up, make them bigger. There’s no need to live small anymore. There is a time now that exists in the universe, right now that whatever your heart’s desire and make it as big as you can, will come to fruition. It says if a Genie is knocking at your door and saying, “Your wish is our command”. The question is, are you willing to open the door? Let that Genie in cause that Genie is you, you are of the universe and you are the universe, you are all of that. So as you elevate your ability to play within this game called life, then you elevate the results that you bring to you. How do you elevate, simple, ask. Raise your vibration get to the point that you’re no longer willing to settle for less than you desire.

No is a complete sentence, say no to what you don’t desire. When you learn to say no to what you don’t desire, you invite in to you what you truly desire.

 

                                                     It’s OK to Say…No

If you find that something or someone is not a vibrational match in business personally, professionally, say no to that person. You’ll do them a service as well, say no. Then they can go find someone who’s a vibrational match with them. And then you’ve called in the universe, you’ve said, I’m not willing to settle for this. I’m not willing to do that. I am willing to raise my standards and live life in a way that I was meant to live, in the flow, in abundance, in joy and then you allow.

And then you let it go. That means, when your fists are clenched; you open your palm and you say…I trust, I am of this energy and I am here to do that which I desire.

If you’re doing something right now in work that you don’t love, quit your job, quit, quit. And do the thing that you absolutely love because now there is energy available to you, just step in to your higher purpose, right now, that has never been here before like it is now. This is all about transformational times and higher purpose energies. The doors are wide open for you; you just may not be looking in the right direction. So trust in yourself, meditate do those things that silence your mind. The mind that keeps putting forth negative thoughts, silence that mind and ask, well what would I desire? What is for my highest and best? What would fill me up every day to do, to be, to have and it’s from that place that you get to choose your life experiences.

 

                                                Achieving Grace

And when you’re in that state of, we call it grace, in that state of grace, in that state of knowing and beingness. You literally can create something out of nothing.

Any uncertainty that you have within you, breathe that out. Let that go, trust in the direction that you are moving in. If you find that things are difficult, rejoice in the difficulties. Be glad for the difficulties because they are showing you that you are right on your path.

 

                            Embrace Difficulties, Forget Struggle

 

Difficulties are different than struggle. If you’re in something where there is struggle, then reconsider that thing. Look at it from a different way; struggle is not the energy of grace. Ease and grace are meant to go hand in hand. When things are difficult that’s ok. It doesn’t mean that you can’t get through them, you will learn as you get through any difficult situation, that there is more for you beyond that difficult situation. At times it may just be for you to appreciate the good times. That’s why the difficulties come in and other times they may be to show you that there is more, that needs to change in that situation. Trust that but move through it, so many of you pull back from difficulty. If things don’t happen easy, over night, you pull back. Then we say to you keep going, keep moving through that time that feels difficult. And keep trusting and calling on your team because as you move through that energy it will change who you are on a cellular level, to the point that you’ll be so much stronger. And that’s what the world needs now. They need strong, healed people, who are moving in a powerful direction and doing what it is that they love to do. Doing what is in their heart and of the highest vibration.

 

                                          Life Gets Easier…

And when you do that, you’ll find the world beats a path to your door. You’re no longer having to struggle and stress and strain. The people come to you, the business comes to you, the relationships come to you. All of that comes and allow for that. Let go of the resistance, the resistance is strong and it’s strong within you and you know it is cause you say “I’m not moving in that direction because I did that before and it didn’t work out” and you stamp your foot and you pound your fists and you become resolved to stop.

 

                                        Forgiveness Sets You Free

Let go of the past, the past is in the past on all levels personally, professionally, financially, emotionally, whatever other ways. And you say, that’s easy for you to say, let go of the past, but you don’t know what that person did to me. And we say, let it go, let it go.

Holding on to old energy is keeping your vibration low and keeping you stuck. If someone did something to you in the past, just know that it was the best that they could do at that time. That was all they had to work with, trust that and forgive them. Forgiveness is a gift that you give yourself; it has nothing to do with any other person in your past. Let the past go, we see too many people almost eighty percent of the planet, holding and living in the past. Eighty percent, if eighty percent is living in the past that is not enough to move this energy and planet in a positive, loving uplifting way FORWARD.

 

~The One Voice

Via Jaden Sterling

 

 

 

 

 


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How to Make Sure Life’s Lessons Come Easily

Life’s Lessons: Do They Have to Be Difficult?

Ever wonder what makes life easy or difficult? Are you perplexed when life is clipping along and all-of-a sudden; something happens, that completely takes you off course?

How is it that…one minute you’re headed in a direction and then BAM, and accident or injury occurs and your life…abruptly changes? When a course correction happens to you, ever ask…Why?

Gentle Lessons Come First

Even if your life clips along, at some point you will experience powerful change. Very few get to skip life’s class and skate through life on a “hall pass.” Since you are still here on earth that means you have lessons to learn for your soul to evolve and grow.

To grow, change is required. Change comes about two ways, either from you or something happens to you.

Easy and gentle guidance to change comes frequently. It’s likely you receive guidance daily, in the form of: signs, messages, internal promptings, fleeting yet powerful ideas, inspired thoughts and many other ways.

Perhaps a persistent thought in the back of your mind is trying to get your attention. It’s that little voice within, reminding you to: slow down, take a breath, make a change, look for another job, get a check-up, take a vacation or any number of things that would serve you.

Too often we ignore that quiet, persistent part of us until it’s too late. Lack of early detection on our part and our inability to change what isn’t quite right, gives the universe no other choice but to intervene; ultimately changing our path for us.

Ignore or Heed Warning Signs?

As previously mentioned, you are given multiple clues and given many chances to make changes…easily and on your terms.

If I were a betting man, I would bet, you could look back and think of plenty of times when you knew something in your life needed to change. Yet, perhaps you were too busy, too focused/distracted or too lazy to make the changes yourself. We’ve all been there!

Plus, it’s easy to erroneously think the early warning signs are unimportant due to their gentle nature. So…we persevere…ignore them, until we are so far out of balance the universe must intervene to restore…balance.

Warning signs ignored, in comes the proverbial “2×4” experience to get our attention and/or stop us in our tracks.

 What Happens When We Don’t Spearhead Change?

Change happens…if not by our volition than by the universe on our behalf, yet it doesn’t feel that way when going through it. When change happens to us, it can feel like our life is out of control and that we are a victim.

It’s awful! Yet, what choice did we give the universe? After all, we ignored the early warning signs that change was necessary.

Since we did nothing to change our situation, the universe intervened to get our attention and create change!

 Next Step…The 2×4:

You can’t miss the 2×4, no matter how asleep, due to the trauma it creates. Its sheer force will abruptly and forever change your life.

The 2×4 experience can show up as: loss of income, health crisis, car accident, divorce, bankruptcy, loss of a business or ___________ (you fill in the blank.) Essentially it is a traumatic experience that serves to wake you up or stop you in your tracks.

This traumatic event leads most asking, “Why did this happen…to me?”

The ‘why’ is simple, you ignored the early warning signs and chose to not make changes.

That might be difficult to hear, yet think about it. What happened in your life when you stayed the course (knowing it wasn’t the right course) rather than course correct?

Or when you tried to fit a “square peg in a round hole?”

Or because of fear you pushed in a direction that wasn’t for your highest and best.

Believe it or not, the 2×4 is usually the last resort and comes (only after) gentle warning signs are repeatedly ignored.

This is when circumstances happen that can leave us feeling like a victim. However, we need to see our role in this process; we allowed for life to become out of balance and now the universe is doing its job to…restore balance.

Trauma: The Beauty and the Beast

Recently I injured my knee. An injury that literally stopped me in my tracks, unable to move forward. Bed ridden I searched deep within as to “why” this happened. It didn’t take long to figure out I wasn’t taking care of myself, pushing hard on all fronts: emotionally, physically and mentally. Ignoring the warning signs: sensitivity around my knee joint, inner prompting to stretch more before and after workouts, shoulder pain from stressing the joint and utter exhaustion. I pushed on, until…I couldn’t.

Initially, all I could see was the trouble and trauma my accident caused. I was in constant pain and wanted someone to “fix me.”

Can Someone Fix You?

 The week following my injury, I saw an ER doctor, chiropractor, sports massage therapist and Osteopath, declaring before each visit, “they will fix me.”

Improvement was slow. The miraculous healing I was hoping for from healthcare professionals didn’t happen. The longer I stayed in bed the more frustrated I grew.

However, one morning I awoke with clarity…my knee was going to be fixed by me and I knew where to start.

Confusion Creates Misalignment

Downtime allowed for me to think. Knowing I had to get to the root cause of my “accident.” I replayed the situation in my mind, remembering a disempowering thought I had the second before my “accident.”

My disempowering thought created confusion in my mind and body. I was literally holding two opposing ideas inside simultaneously. The first, a disempowering thought and the second, powerful actions of moving forward in life.

In that moment, I confused my mind and body which led to misalignment and my body didn’t know whether to move forward or stay stuck.

So both happened, simultaneously…my left foot planted while my knee rotated.

Healing Anything Starts From the Inside, Out

 While recovering, I experienced long periods of quiet contemplation, soon it became evident…healing can’t be rushed. Rather, accepting and doing everything I could to assist my knee to heal became priority #1.

Being Type A personality, I soon realized I could be proactive while healing. I got extra sleep, ate anti-inflammatory foods and only allowed for alkaline thoughts. What are those you ask?  Alkaline thoughts are thoughts which have healing properties.

I noticed when I only allowed positive, supportive, peaceful thoughts to enter my mind and therefore; my body, my knee felt…better.

 Think and Grow Well

 Fearful thoughts were felt instantly in my knee and contributed to instability of the joint. I knew I had to take dominion over my thoughts so I came up with a mantra that I repeated, continuously:

All is well

All is unfolding perfectly

All is happening for my highest and best

I said this out-loud and to myself so often that I believed it! Soon, I changed my thinking from being a victim to a victor! I became peaceful with my predicament and in turn I noticed improvement in my knee.

Peace Clears the Path for Change

 Being peaceful with your circumstance regardless of how bad things might look or feel will allow for you to get through your situation faster. Peace for me came when I surrendered to my situation and allowed for it to be ok.

I stopped asking, “why” and started asking, “what lesson(s) do I need to learn from my accident?” This new question allowed me to look at my situation differently which in turn led me to relax rather than control the process. I sort of became a Type B personality for a while, simply allowing for the process to unfold. Yet, I still didn’t fully see the “gift” in my circumstance until a bit later and WOW what a gift it was. Keep reading, I’ll get to that in a moment.

Patience Precedes Trust

 Discussing this topic with my wife, brought interesting in site. She said, patience leads to trust. I said, “Patience, I don’t even know how to spell that.” Her reply…P a t i e n s e. Ha ha. We laughed then the reality of what she said slowly sunk in.

I don’t know about you, but patience is the LAST thing I have going on. If you are like me, you probably struggle with having patience too.

My path to patience began by releasing control. I released control by acknowledging the universe had something else in store for me and I trusted all is unfolding perfectly for my highest and best.

This new way of thinking allowed for my traumatic experience to transform from beast to beauty.

Trust Transforms…

 Fully trusting, allowed me to see the many benefits of my injury. I had time to work on my book, to rely on the help of others, to move through life more slowly and easily. To learn not to push, rather to flow with what life gave me. No longer was I resentful for what happened ‘to me’ rather I was grateful for lessons and personal growth that came from the experience.

Soon the words flowed freely: I am so grateful for my accident; it changed my life for the better.

I meant it.

Grateful or Resentful?

 How about you? If you are currently going through a difficult time, are you grateful or resentful?

Makes you think doesn’t it?

If you are resentful what good can come from that? Resentment is closely aligned with resistance. As you know, what you resist persists. So, it makes sense that what you resent persists in your life until you find yourself completely out of life’s flow.

Getting back into the flow of life is as simple as being grateful for all experiences whether you planned them or not.

Your 30-day Challenge…

 In a world rife with 30-day challenges…perhaps a new 30-day challenge can be for you to identify the gentle nudges from the universe and follow them. For the next 30 days acknowledge all the clues and signs the universe has for you and act on them. Notice how when you make changes, the 2×4 isn’t necessary any longer. Are you up for the challenge?

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Love Is The Answer

CHANNEL – JADEN
Easter Sunday, April 1, 2018 10:00 am MST

There’s an acceleration into this next phase which the guides are describing as “in to the light”.
Everything is moving forward. There is a refining and polishing up that is happening.

You Are a Bright Light
There’s moving forward – confidence, assuredly, assisting those that need assistance and are open to it. This is a very powerful time energetically. Explosions happening in a good way. Think of fireworks illuminating the sky. Bursting. That firework travels a distance to reach the sky, and at the right time it bursts open. Similar things are happening for you. For each person who is awake and conscious and aware. Their light will burst in the sky in the best possible way. They must endure the travelling of the distance from the ground up. The moving through their days with utter confidence, complete faith in what is unfolding.

Assistance is Available to YOU
Assistance is available for all those on earth, now more than ever. Think of someone – an entity, a being, an invisible being, invisible to the physical eyes yet materially available for those who can feel into it and see with the third eye.

Each person is given a guide who is standing next to them. Guiding them, literally showing them the way, if they are awake and aware. Many are numb, sleepwalking through life, not able to feel the assistance or the guidance. Frustrated and angry that there is none, saying that there is none (assistance or guidance), pleading “please help me”. Many suffer needlessly. Some is for their karmic path, for the path that they set out to wrong, to clear their karmic debts, to right any wrongs that they previously experienced in previous carnations. Those wrongs must be accounted for in order to move forward, in this powerful energy.

Forgiveness is a Gift for YOU
Self-forgiveness, forgiveness of others, is key during this time. Many who have done their work are experiencing a heart-opening, and opening to future dimensions, but here in the now to be able to access this energy that is available to most, future oriented, yet to some now in the present moment.

The Future is NOW
It’s as if they’re living in the future in the present. Finely tune your energy with that vibration. Faith plays a big part in this, meditation, visualization – in that order. Know, feel, see – yourself walking through this current time with purpose, power, presence.

Focus is key. Focusing in the moment on a singular task with a specific outcome.

There will always be ups and downs. In the downs, continue to look up. In the up times, continue to look at what’s in front of you, see into the front of you. A view is presented, pictures and images, feelings, knowing, that will give clarity for the next step of the direction you must go. Remain light-footed and nimble at this time. Joy is there for the taking.

Peace on Earth
In a dynamic changing world, this moment, there is much peace on earth. Feeling into this energy, embodying it, embracing it, expanding it, will serve you. This is a day of atonement. Many are cleansed for their sins today.

New Beginnings…
Many feel that today is a way to start over, a new beginning. There’s hope in their heart. We (guides) love days like today. We feel the earth energies. The measurement of love today around the planet is big. For those living on earth, connecting with loved ones, feeling hopeful. Today is literally a new paradigm, a shifting from the old. The falling away of the old, bringing in of the new. Illumination.

Love Is the Answer
You are on track. Stay focussed and disciplined and open. Open-hearted. Follow the love. Love for what we do. Love for those who seek it. Love for self. It is time for the entire planet to feel love. Self-love rather than self-loathing. A deep, powerful love. It is available to all who seek it, who desire it, who wish for it in their life. It may appear as many are on multiple different journeys, but we’re all on the same path.

Love Bubble Meditation
The path of love and illumination. We surround you in a pink bubble. Feel the love energy from this bubble. It’s placed above you and around you to connect in with all chakras, all aspects of you. Notice the size of the bubble, notice the colour, the energy from it. Notice how you feel in it. (Breathe). In this bubble, ask your cells to shift. For the mitochondria to grow and expand, to overtake the weak. To contribute to the strong, healthy, those cells that will give your physical body the energy to move through this time with ease and grace, the power and presence, purpose. Feel the vibration within the bubble, the wave lengths of energy flowing through you, moving through you (breathe)…
At any time you can surround yourself with this pink bubble, to relax, to rejuvenate your cells, realign with your purpose, reimagine what is possible. Move through this time with ease, knowing you are fully supported, all is well. We (guides) are here for you, whenever you need us. Call upon us. Seek the guidance then follow it, trust in it.
And so it is.

~ The One Voice via Jaden Sterling


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Here’s how to make 2018 EPIC!

2017 was a big year of transformation and for getting on the “right path” did you feel that too?

By the right path I mean, gaining clarity on what really lights you up, energizes you, excites you and moves you to create a better life for yourself. That includes, aligning with “work” that is MEANT for you. Work that is aligned with your passion AND expertise. That combination brings abundance like nothing else. Abundance of joy, happiness, money and all GOOD that can flow to you…

December 2017 especially proved transformational (as if the entire year wasn’t enough to create tremendous change in life) so much that you might have gotten hit hard with “reality.” Reality in the form of what serves you and what doesn’t serve you.

In retrospect, the best word I can use to describe 2017 is: “RECALIBRATE.” The process of recalibration involves: tweaking, turning, and sometimes, “man handling” situations in life that need to change!

Out with the old and in with the NEW cause 2018 is the year of EXPANSION.

I hope you took advantage of that energy and allowed for the old to move out of your life. Old beliefs, behaviours, addictions, people that no longer serve your highest and best.
If not, you still have time for a little introspection to ultimately move forward in 2018. Here’s what I suggest:

New Moon January 16th

New moon’s bring in new energy to create and build what you want. I suggest, setting time aside and journaling. Specifically, journal about what you desire to release and what you desire to have grow in your life. What do you choose to expand, grow, and thrive? Putting paper to pen is powerful and the time to do so is around the new moon. What we want to expand we “plant” during the new moon.

Planting includes allowing your goals and dreams to reach deep into your psyche/subconscious mind to flower during the full moon.

Just Say NO.

For an effective recalibration to happen you must determine what to let go of and what to keep. I’ve talked a lot about how to let go, more on that here.

For now, take a look at what isn’t FULLY serving you and say no to it.

At first, that may sound harsh, but you really need to look after yourself and take better care of yourself. Saying yes to everything can leave you run down and no good for your self and others, yes?

That was my plan for 2017, I said no to ALL radio, TV and print magazine interviews. That was hard to do since I built my entire business on “putting myself out there.” I stopped EVERYTHING except for one thing and that was, speaking at events.

Early 2017 I looked at my business and realized the ONE single biggest lever in my business was speaking. Not everything else I was doing. So…I took a deep breath, created a pleasant but no thank you email that was automatically sent to every person who wanted something from me (interviews, blogs, articles, webcasts, videos and TV appearances.)

This was frightening and freeing simultaneously! Frightening because I thought I would lose my business and freeing because I had TIME to do what I wanted to do.

2017 turned out amazingly well! I doubled my business, took 17 weeks off, spent more time than ever before with family, vacationed and started really loving life again.

I ask you: What can you say NO to?

After You Say NO…Say: Yes!

2018 is entirely different energy. Let me explain…this year you will experience the energy of expansion. You will more easily expand your wealth, happiness joy and abundance on ALL levels.

To embrace expansion it will best serve you to start saying YES. I suggest only start saying YES after you get good at saying NO.

This take discernment. Discernment to KNOW what serves you best, what gives you energy, what you really, really really LOVE.

If you are unsure, take time during the next few days and discover for yourself what truly lights you up. Spoiler Alert: Look to those things that you have expertise in.

We typically excel in areas that we enjoy, yes?

After you gain clarity regarding your expertise, say YES to ALL opportunities aligned with your area of expertise and say no to everything else.

Essentially, I am saying to “GO ALL IN.” No more, toe in the water stuff, this is the time to jump into the deep end and don’t worry, you’ll quickly figure out how to navigate the waters!

If Not Now, When?

What if you don’t make any changes, where will you be
in a year?
What if you keep saying yes to everything this year like last year? What can you expect to be do and have this time next year?

I sincerely want the best for you. You can live an extraordinary life, do you know that?

Next Steps…

  • Set your “new moon intentions” over the next few days. Especially for what you desire to expand.
  • Get clear about what to say no and yes to.
  • Identify your “one thing” that you will commit to this year
  • Create your “thanks but no thanks” email to send to all those who want something from you that doesn’t align with your one thing.

 

More to come…
Jaden Sterling


Is Money Cheating On You?

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Is Money Cheating On You?

Is Money Cheating on You?

Crafted by Jaden Sterling

Do you often feel cheated when it comes to having money in your life? Do you feel like money is unfaithful to you and calls on everyone else but you? Do you often wonder why some people have lots of money while others don’t?

In this brief questionnaire you will quickly know whether you are inspiring money to cheat on your or to remain faithful.

Money Q’s:

 

1) Are you generous with money?                                                     Y or N

2) Do you feel secure with money?                                                   Y or N

3) Do you like money?                                                                         Y or N

4) Are you comfortable with money?                                               Y or N

5) Do you honor your money commitments?                                Y or N

3 “Yes” or more: Money has no reason to cheat on you!

2 “Yes” Money is on the fence and is reconsidering the relationship.

1 “Yes” or less: Money has one foot out the door, and is looking for someone else to be with.

Regardless of your answer, we can all do better when it comes to money!

Let’s figure out how you can be a better partner to money and inspire it to stay; and invite its friends, shall we?

Are You Generous With Money?        

The fastest way to money’s heart is by letting it do well by sharing it with others who need it. Money hates being locked away and not able to come out and play! When you share your money you allow it to go out and tell all its friends it’s found an amazing host who “gets” it. Which inspires more money to come find you.

Do You Feel Secure With Money?  

Money loves confident and secure people. Most mistake money with security and frankly, money feels misunderstood when that happens. Money is inspired to visit people who have vision and take action not who are waiting on it to feel secure!

Do You Like Money?

Money is more likely to stay around with people who like it and dare I say, “love it?” Think about it, are you drawn to people who like you and love you? Money feels liked and loved when it is acknowledged and appreciated. After all, what you appreciate, appreciates. You can start a practice of appreciating money by thanking it when it comes to you.

My daily mantra is, “I love money and money loves me.”

Are You Comfortable With Money?

You know when you are uncomfortable with money when you spend it as quickly as you get it. People, who are comfortable with money, allow it to hang out with them. They allow for it to accumulate in their investment account, checking account, and savings account and even in safes. However, there is a fine line when it comes to savings since we already know, money likes to be shared!

Each person will need to discover this delicate balance and be careful not to hoard money.

 Do You Honor Your Money Commitments?

How often do you follow through with your money commitments? Keeping “money commitments” means you keep your word when it comes to money and not change the rules as you go.

Let me explain, if you sign up for a program that has 12 monthly payments of $199.00 per month, no matter what happens you make those payments if that’s what you agreed upon. If you have alimony or child-support payments you honor those payments.

Most bail on money agreements due to fear, which is never a good idea!

Honoring your money commitments happens to be the fastest way to having more money in your life.

Regarding commitment, it’s best to start…Slow. Perhaps start with committing to saving 10% of your earned income, which benefits you in multiple ways. You will build your savings account, keep a promise to yourself and to money, learn discipline and ultimately TRUST in yourself to keep your commitments.

Whatever money arrangement you agree to, you keep! This will allow you to be more discerning when it comes to making money commitments. Money commits to those who commit to it.

 Money Isn’t Mysterious or Elusive

 Money flows due to clear and unfailing universal and scientific principles.

Famed inventor, Nikola Tesla once said, “Forget everything you know about matter, if you want to know the secrets of the universe think in terms of: energy frequency and vibration.”

Tesla’s statement applies to EVERYTHING in the universe, including…Money. More specifically, we attract money due to our energy frequency and vibration.

So…the REAL question is:

What energy frequency and vibration attracts money?

The energy of creativity and discipline attract money. Creativity is a feminine trait and discipline, a masculine trait.

An unbalanced approach, tapping only feminine (creativity) or only masculine (discipline) energy isn’t enough to bring home money.

Essentially, expressing both: feminine and masculine traits, tunes you into the frequency and vibration of money.

Creativity is…Inspiration Expressed

 Creativity and discipline are energies that are created within your self, first. Creativity requires you to show up, be present and create in ANY medium you choose.

Creativity is the act of expressing your inspiration. Perhaps now is a good time to ask, “What inspires you?”

Be free, expressive and let your creativity…Flow.

Discipline Gets Money’s Attention

Discipline is required to execute. Execution is follow-through, asking for the order, keeping your word to self and others. Discipline takes over when you lack motivation.

The phrase, “Slow and steady wins the race” encapsulates the meaning of the word discipline. Think about your own life, what happens when you become disciplined? Do you see changes? Do you achieve your goals and dreams? Do your creative pursuits get to “See the light of day?”

Creativity and Discipline…Bring Money Home!

 Being disciplined when it comes to your creative pursuits inspires money to beat a path to your door.

What can you do, starting right now to be more disciplined when it comes to your creative pursuits? Can you commit to spending at least 30 minutes a day on creative projects? Can you wake up an hour before everyone else in your house and work on a creative project?

Can you stay up an hour later? Can you say, “No” to distractions and “Yes” to your creative pursuits? Give it a try and let me know what happens.

In summary, money only cheats if you give it reason to by: hoarding it, fearing it, lying about it, and etc.

Money honors its commitments and will stay with you yet, requires an open relationship.

Suffice it to say, money can’t be tied down, doesn’t want to be hoarded and loves to assist those in need. The more generous you are with money, the more money will tell its friends to visit you!

 

 


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Channel October 10, 2016 British Columbia with Jaden Sterling: Life’s Obstacles

The energy of “All That IS, steps forward. Feeling overwhelmed with love light and warmth. Like a combination of healing, loving energy that’s enveloping us. There are no words, just feelings. Warmth, compassion, love, support. Helping us wake up to knowing that all is an illusion; that we create our reality with our view.

The eyes at which we look at the world. Each person looks through different eyes; experiences a different reality. The biggest challenge is for people to understand that. People can begin to change that by taking more responsibility for their actions; for the good and the bad that happen to them.

For acknowledging and noticing how they’re calling these opportunities; these experiences, and they create them. It’s not even a co-creation; it’s a very deliberate system process that people begin with and the universe just falls into place.

Key is to get out of the thought—process and into the physical body. Align with the energies in the physical body; the guidance from within, and connect out to spirit.

Spirit is the one who delivers what’s on your heart and takes those messages to the universe for fulfilment. Processing the order. And if that thing does not exist for people, then something better does, and that is what is delivered.

There’s an attunement to high energies that the higher self is connected with. Not the mental self or the emotional self, but the higher self is attuned to what is best. The spirit and the soul’s journey. The spirit is what keeps one on track. On the track that is laid out ahead of time. That is chosen by the soul before incarnation.

People are overwhelmed on the Earthly Plane. Confused, scared, frustrated. Too many things; too many options. There’s great power in focus. Focus on what the heart desires, and do not deviate from that focus. And then intend to receive the heart’s desire as easily, joyfully, gracefully as possible. That is the desire of the universe to deliver with ease and grace.

Conscious thinking minds; ego gets involved and the system changes. Humans veer off-track. This is why the lessons come. In difficult manner; in a challenging manner; in a frustrating manner. That is not the way of spirit. Marvel at what unfolds. Make an allowance for what unfolds. And easily, joyfully receive what is available to you, but you must ask. Not enough people ask; too many complain. There is great power in asking and in trusting in the delivery process. Everything comes in the same way; everything is energy. Physical form manifest when there is a blending of energies to an attunement. Let these energies meld into solid state. Much happens—much happens to the physical manifestation of one’s desires. It’s a complex process.

Multi-dimensional; multi-stages. Quite different than what most think. One must relax through this process. Ask, let go, relax, receive. Let go of the wish; the heart’s desire, and simply let go. Allow it for the receiving. In whatever form or fashion.

Receive on multi-levels, energetically. Open up to that process. That is the allowance. Calling forth that thing, the very thing that you desire.

Much happens in the upper chakras. The crown chakra and beyond the twelfth chakra. It’s the connection with the dimension. That manifestation begins. As you let go of your heart’s desires, allow them to move up through the chakras; through the multi-dimensions in other realms. The energy above the head in the upper chakras needs to be opened. The more open, the easier it is to receive your heart’s desire.

As above, so below. The crystallization; the materialization happens in the above regions as well as in the earth. The energies connect from both dimensions: upper and lower. Lower being earthly dimension: Earth. Upper being non-physical: Realms.

The energies connect in and form a circular motion. As above, connecting in; circling back down into the energies of the earth for anchoring desires in the physical form. The process is easy when there’s an allowance and understanding of what takes place.

The challenge is that this is not a human process; this is a spiritual, soulful process. Spirit lends a hand. Spirit is the order-taker and the deliverer of that order into the other dimensions. It happens very quickly; with ease. Like a blink of an eye. Rapid speed as each person is constantly wishing and wanting and wondering how to get what they desire.

So, what you desire can come when there’s a clear understanding of that process. Move those things away that stop the process. Make way; clear the energies above and below. Make time for connection, and focus.

The longer the connection, the easier the desire manifests. Keep that on your heart. Don’t jump from thing to thing to thing. Stay with whatever it is that you desire. Remain steadfast.

The universe is transpiring in your favor; you must always remember that. There’s one thing to work on: it’s increasing the strength of the connection. The mind, body, spirit within. When you go within, with a very strong connection, you never go without. You’ll be satiated on all levels: mentally, spiritually, emotionally, financially, physically, energetically. All levels.

It’s not a matter of moving mountains; it’s a matter of working with the energy of the mountain. Humans work so hard at eliminating and moving things, but it’s the hard way. Work with the energies as a dance, like the tango.

Dance with the energies of what is presented in front of you, that is causing you stress strain and struggle. Too many try to eliminate these. To move them; clear them; eliminate them.

We say there is a better way. Work with them.

They are there for a reason: to assist you. Feel into the energies of what is in front of you; of what causes you frustration or stress or strain. Feeling into the process allows for the process to unfold; for the energies to shift and transform.

For the energies to align to what you truly desire, and then that mountain dissolves and disappears, and in its place is a path. A clearly defined path for you to continue on until the next mountain appears for you to dance with. For you to work with the energies.

There is no elimination; there is simply changing the energy. Transforming the energy to work with you; to seeing it in a different way; to embrace each mountain ahead of you. You will soon forget the work that’s involved as you transform and grow when you reach the other side of that mountain. As you simply move through the mountain and continue on your path.

One cannot lose sight of the gift from the mountain or the perceived obstacle. It is truly a gift to work through; to connect energetically with and to use that energy. When that is complete, there is a feeling of well-being. Of joy; of ease and grace. And after one time, having done that, you will feel as if there isn’t anything you can’t do, be or have. The key is to work with the energies.

Ganesha shows us to transform; to transmute the energy. Ganesha assists with that. Work with Ganesha to transform the energies of that obstacle in front of you.

And so it is.

~ All That IS via Jaden Sterling


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Fast Money

Money Meter is 9 today. Money says, “I  flow freely today, quickly and without restraint. I come to those who are good receivers, and who are open to me. Simple is best today, be clear, concise and easy for me to find you and I will  make my way to you.” ~ #MoneyMeter

 


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Broaden Your Money Horizons

Money Meter is 7 today! Money says, “Consider all possibilites when it comes to me. What new way can you create that allows me to find you? Challenge yourself to create new openings, avenues, possibilities and options. New ways is the path to create new money sources and resources. Continue to expand your thinking and new will be coming to you.” ~ #MoneyMeter

 

 


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Money Mission

Money Meter is 4 today. Money says, “Today is ideal for crafting your mission. What would you love to do that benefits others? Who do you want to benefit and how? How will you reach this group? The more value added the quicker I will come to you. Please make your mission bigger than you, keeping the focus on who you serve and how. The greater benefit to people the greater your benefits. Remember to keep this all in perspective as you craft your money mission today.” ~#MoneyMeter

May not be a great day for the cash register to ring, but what a GREAT day for crafting your vision of what you desire to create. Are you considering a start up? Expanding your growth strategy? Considering new markets? Whatever it is, today is a great day to envision what you desire to create. ~ Jaden Sterling


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